I’ve found people to be the greatest brick walls we encounter. Entering into a relationship is always easy, it is fresh, it is something new and not a lot of work. However as time passes, the things you initially thought were cute or tolerable began to wear away at you and it’s natural to question is this what you really want. Is there something else better? Am I happy? The easy answer is always to give up, the more rewarding solution is to work at it, to try with all you can. Maybe it still won’t work out, but at least you can say you tried.
I don’t think people are meant to be by themselves. That’s why if you find someone you actually care about, it’s important to let go of the little things, Even if you can’t let go all the way, because nothing sucks more than being all alone. At the end of the day it is really about chasing after what you really want. Even if that means showing you both care a little and even if it means sacrificing your own happiness. But know that even if you do the right thing, there’s no guarantee it’ll turn out the right way. If you hit that low point, you have a choice, you can either wallow in self-pity.. or you can suck it up, it’s your call! The harder you have to work at something the more you will appreciate it. Have a super Wednesday